Sahe Chitthi, Chithi, is an official invitation from the Bride’s family to the Groom’s family
Sahe Chitthi is a traditional letter which is used as a wedding invitation. It is typically written by the bride’s family to formally invite the groom’s family to the wedding ceremony. The letter includes details about the wedding, such as the date, time, and location, as well as the names of the bride and groom. It is considered a polite and respectful way to extend an invitation to a wedding.
Yes, but it depends on the family. Some traditional families still follow this practice, while modern families may confirm the marriage verbally or digitally instead of sending a formal letter.
Nothing major happens, as it is not a religious requirement but rather a cultural tradition. If both families agree, they may skip this step and confirm the wedding in other ways, like through conversations or an engagement ceremony.
In today’s digital age, some families choose to send a written confirmation via email, WhatsApp, or text messages, though traditional families still prefer a handwritten or printed letter for formality and respect.
Usually, the letter is written by an elder male in the bride’s family, such as her father, grandfather, or uncle.
The Sahe Chitthi typically includes:
It is usually read out aloud and then handed over in a respectful manner. Both families acknowledge and appreciate it as a formal gesture.
Traditionally, the groom’s family does not send a formal reply. Instead, they acknowledge it with gratitude and respect
The Sahe Chitthi itself is not a religious requirement in Sikhi. It is more of a cultural tradition than a religious mandate.
The Sahe Chitthi is often sent with:
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